ingratiated; ingratiating
Synonyms of ingratiate

transitive verb

: to gain favor or favorable acceptance for by deliberate effort
—usually used with with
… ingratiate themselves with the community leaders.—William Attwood

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When you ingratiate yourself, you put yourself in someone’s good graces in order to gain their approval or favor. While the word ingratiate does not necessarily imply that your behavior is obsequious or otherwise improper, the word may be used disapprovingly by those who distrust your motives. The word entered English in the early 1600s from the combining of the Latin noun gratia, meaning “grace” or “favor,” with the English prefix in-. Gratia comes from the adjective gratus, meaning “pleasing, grateful.” Gratus has, over the centuries, ingratiated itself well with the English language as the ancestor of a whole host of words including gratuitous, congratulate, and grace.

Examples of ingratiate in a Sentence

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Sometimes that manifests in small ways, such as when media relations staffers cut off a news conference early in the hope of ingratiating themselves to a player. — Stephanie Apstein, Washington Post, 25 Oct. 2026 The film slowly relates that the aspiring rapper and superfan ingratiated himself into the band’s circles, flying to New York multiple times as a teenager for the purpose. — Brian Boucher, ARTnews.com, 24 Oct. 2026 Lee ingratiates himself by pretending to be interested in becoming a CO himself — attracted to the manliness and the glamor. — Amanda Whiting, Vulture, 15 Oct. 2026 Typically, only a low-value male resorts to this behavior, turning to foot-licking as the easiest way to ingratiate himself with women. — Tucker Reals, CBS News, 8 Oct. 2026 See All Example Sentences for ingratiate

Word History

Etymology

in- entry 2 + Latin gratia grace

First Known Use

1621, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of ingratiate was in 1621

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“Ingratiate.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ingratiate. Accessed 28 Oct. 2026.

Kids Definition

ingratiate

verb
ingratiated; ingratiating
: to gain favor or acceptance for by deliberate effort
quickly ingratiated herself with her new pupils

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