self-pity

noun

ˌself-ˈpi-tē How to pronounce self-pity (audio)
Synonyms of self-pitynext
: pity for oneself
especially : a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes
self-pitying
ˌself-ˈpi-tē-iŋ How to pronounce self-pity (audio)
adjective
self-pityingly
ˌself-ˈpi-tē-iŋ-lē How to pronounce self-pity (audio)
adverb

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However, those not feeling the lovey-dovey vibe of the month don't need to wallow in self-pity. — Stacey Leasca, Travel + Leisure, 24 Feb. 2026 Florida fans aren't dumb, and have once again called their former coach out on the latest stop of his self-pity tour. — Austin Perry Outkick, FOXNews.com, 6 May 2026 Despite the challenges, Urso refused to indulge in self-pity. — Daniel I. Dorfman, Chicago Tribune, 16 Mar. 2026 Those reflections on youthful passion contrast sharply with the Mozzer’s current state of self-pity. — Jon Dolan, Rolling Stone, 6 Mar. 2026 See All Example Sentences for self-pity

Word History

First Known Use

1604, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-pity was in 1604

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self-pity

noun
ˈself-ˈpit-ē
: pity for oneself
especially : too much attention to one's misfortunes
self-pitying
-ē-iŋ
adjective

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