How to Use self-absorbed in a Sentence

self-absorbed

adjective
  • On the dark side, be wary of coming across as selfish and self-absorbed when your needs aren't met.
    — Valerie Mesa, Peoplemag, 11 June 2024
  • There's no market for a self-absorbed, past his prime, locker room cancer?
    — Dianna Russini, The Athletic, 26 Feb. 2025
  • To that end, yes, honeymoon phases are gushy (and self-absorbed).
    — Carolyn Hax, Washington Post, 19 June 2024
  • My sibling is loving, kind and generous — as well as self-absorbed.
    — Haben Kelati, Washington Post, 10 May 2023
  • Life in the middle, utterly self-absorbed.
    — Literary Hub, 19 June 2026
  • Smart played Winslet’s mother, Helen, who is both all-seeing and self-absorbed.
    — J Wortham, New York Times, 12 May 2024
  • For the moment at least, no one can accuse me of being self-absorbed and neglectful, either.
    — Lucinda Rosenfeld, New Yorker, 25 Oct. 2025
  • Those today with the best levels of executive presence are not self-absorbed.
    — Adrian Gostick, Forbes, 18 Apr. 2023
  • However, these terms are often used with a note of derision, applied to someone who is self-absorbed.
    — Frances Vinall, Washington Post, 2 June 2023
  • Journalists can be a hyper-competitive bunch who grow self-absorbed under the stress of tight deadlines and long hours.
    — Julie Hinds, Detroit Free Press, 17 Dec. 2024
  • Marty is self-absorbed, forgetful, doesn’t much like people and spends hours online looking for advice about how to be a handyman.
    — Mary Ann Grossmann, Twin Cities, 28 Mar. 2026
  • Carrie already knew that her father was self-absorbed and irresponsible.
    — Richard Brody, New Yorker, 18 Apr. 2025
  • This new gaggle of mostly privileged Americans remain as flawed and self-absorbed as ever, too.
    — Randy Myers, The Mercury News, 11 Feb. 2025
  • If someone calls you self-absorbed, consider whether that person has a point or is projecting their own insecurities.
    — David Oliver, USA TODAY, 8 Mar. 2023
  • Or as desperate as affluent people can be while also being completely self-absorbed.
    — Glenn Kenny, New York Times, 10 Apr. 2025
  • Teens and young adults have been self-absorbed with appearance since at least the Boomer generation began coming of age in the rock-and-roll ’50s.
    — Greg Petro, Forbes, 27 Dec. 2024
  • The choice to portray her as irritating, self-absorbed, whiny and inappropriate was no accident.
    — Kelly Lawler, USA Today, 12 Mar. 2026
  • The choice to portray her as irritating, self-absorbed, whiny and inappropriate was no accident.
    — Leigh Blickley, Entertainment Weekly, 16 Mar. 2026
  • The hotel guests are sometimes too self-absorbed to notice, but this season amps up the terrors lurking around every corner in the week leading to the mysterious death.
    — Hannah Giorgis, The Atlantic, 14 Feb. 2025
  • Harris notes the assumptions of all childfree people being self-absorbed, hating children, and not contributing to society ignore the truth.
    — Essence, 1 Aug. 2024
  • Double-dealing, self-absorbed and relentlessly ambitious, the most prominent of them were usually appalling.
    — Catherine Ostler, WSJ, 24 Mar. 2023
  • At this moment the endless analysis and scolding being put forward about what college students were too self-absorbed to grasp about the 2024 election is not helpful.
    — Nicolaus Mills, New York Daily News, 20 Jan. 2025
  • People throw around the term loosely to describe those who are self-absorbed, entitled and manipulative – from overbearing parents to destructive exes.
    — Nicole Fallert, USA TODAY, 24 Mar. 2023
  • Brilliant and brave, the poet and soldier was also entirely self-absorbed, turning the Adriatic city into his own personal manuscript.
    — Ed Simon june 23, Literary Hub, 23 June 2025
  • His decision marks the end of a stunning transformation for Loki, from selfish and self-absorbed to someone willing to make the ultimate sacrifice to save the universe.
    — Jp Mangalindan, Peoplemag, 16 Apr. 2024
  • Zoey Johnson Zoey, the fashion-forward and occasionally self-absorbed eldest Johnson child.
    — Okla Jones, Essence, 24 Sep. 2024
  • Howie’s mental meanderings are maniacally self-absorbed in a way Castro’s narrator worries is true of his own roiling, recursive thoughts.
    — Nathan Goldman, The New Yorker, 21 Feb. 2023
  • Hot stone massages, private yoga, every possible amenity, and also rude, self-absorbed, and entitled rich people in every lounge chair, chasing status and self-improvement, conscious of every flaw but their own.
    — Kathryn Vanarendonk, Vulture, 11 Feb. 2025
  • Although Kilmer had gained a reputation for being antagonistic and self-absorbed early in his career, the actor captured the screen with his magnetic and striking performances.
    — Charisma Madarang, Rolling Stone, 2 Apr. 2025
  • Yes, the characters can be frustratingly self-absorbed, but Hogan and Woyasz might summon up your sympathy for this pair that became parents too early and have never really gotten the hang of the job.
    — Rob Hubbard, Twin Cities, 25 Feb. 2026

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